I've been going back and forth between blogger and wordpress (I can never make up my mind with anything!!!) I even started setting up a blog over there; but I think for now, I've decided to stick with blogger. However, I'm changing the address/name of the blog. I started looking at the stats, and am disgusted by how some people got to this blog (searching for pornographic sites, etc) just because of the word Lesbian in the title.
That being said, I am moving to:
letterstocheeks.blogspot.com
I'm hoping those who read will follow me over there!
Thanks,
Jaime :)
Tuesday, June 7, 2011
Day 7 – What’s your favorite thing to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner? If you have children, what are their favorites?
Dear Cheeks -
Your mommy LOOOOVES to eat! I'm actually working on getting healthy now for you, so my favorites aren't always able to be had. For breakfast, I love cheesy eggs with crisp bacon. Normally though, I have oatmeal and a banana, or an alternative bagel and a banana. Lunch is usually a sandwich (lately turkey, tomato, and coleslaw). My favorite dinner would probably have to be an ooey gooey cheesy cheesy pizza. That is a once in a while treat though lately. Dinner is always different for us - tonight we are having baked chicken, cous cous, and a veggie!
You on the other hand sir, you are not an eater. Your mama and I tried everything to make you enjoy all types of food. But you sure don't!! You like to have the same things with a treat mixed in every now and then. You love eggs and bananas for breakfast. Sometimes you have oatmeal and a banana. On special occassions your mama or I bake you blueberry muffins - which you devour!! For lunch, you either eat Gerber Spinach and Cheese Ravioli or a Lunchable Pizza. Dinners lately have been quesadillas. It's the only way we can get you to eat meat!! We put cheese and either ground beef or chicken in the quesadilla - you gobble it up. Notice veggies aren't a main staple in your diet (unless I hide them in your food - which I am known to do often).
I'm hoping as you grow up, your tastes will change and you will try more things. Until then, eggs, ravioli, pizza, and quesadillas it will be!
Love,
Mommy
Your mommy LOOOOVES to eat! I'm actually working on getting healthy now for you, so my favorites aren't always able to be had. For breakfast, I love cheesy eggs with crisp bacon. Normally though, I have oatmeal and a banana, or an alternative bagel and a banana. Lunch is usually a sandwich (lately turkey, tomato, and coleslaw). My favorite dinner would probably have to be an ooey gooey cheesy cheesy pizza. That is a once in a while treat though lately. Dinner is always different for us - tonight we are having baked chicken, cous cous, and a veggie!
You on the other hand sir, you are not an eater. Your mama and I tried everything to make you enjoy all types of food. But you sure don't!! You like to have the same things with a treat mixed in every now and then. You love eggs and bananas for breakfast. Sometimes you have oatmeal and a banana. On special occassions your mama or I bake you blueberry muffins - which you devour!! For lunch, you either eat Gerber Spinach and Cheese Ravioli or a Lunchable Pizza. Dinners lately have been quesadillas. It's the only way we can get you to eat meat!! We put cheese and either ground beef or chicken in the quesadilla - you gobble it up. Notice veggies aren't a main staple in your diet (unless I hide them in your food - which I am known to do often).
I'm hoping as you grow up, your tastes will change and you will try more things. Until then, eggs, ravioli, pizza, and quesadillas it will be!
Love,
Mommy
Monday, June 6, 2011
Day 4 – What has most surprised you about parenthood?
Dear Cheeks -
What has surprised me most about parenthood? I'm going to have to say the combination of how difficult it is combined with how rewarding and fun it is. Being a parent means setting a good example for, interacting with, and teaching to your child. It means sleepless nights, picking up colds and germs, and dealing with temper tantrums (yes, you have started to throw these FULL ON at 15 months my dear son). But it also means huge smiles, big hugs, and unconditional love. My favorite part of the day is when I spend time with you. Last night, we just ran back and forth from the family room to the kitchen - we were both laughing so hard. I think what is the most surprising to me is how frustrated you can be as a mom one minute, and enamoured with love the next.
Love,
Mommy
What has surprised me most about parenthood? I'm going to have to say the combination of how difficult it is combined with how rewarding and fun it is. Being a parent means setting a good example for, interacting with, and teaching to your child. It means sleepless nights, picking up colds and germs, and dealing with temper tantrums (yes, you have started to throw these FULL ON at 15 months my dear son). But it also means huge smiles, big hugs, and unconditional love. My favorite part of the day is when I spend time with you. Last night, we just ran back and forth from the family room to the kitchen - we were both laughing so hard. I think what is the most surprising to me is how frustrated you can be as a mom one minute, and enamoured with love the next.
Love,
Mommy
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Day 2 -Describe your high school self. What extracurricular activities, if any, did you participate in during high school?
Dear Cheeks -
Believe it or not, your old mommy was once a young, sprite teenager in high school. I started off high school rather shy (much as you are now), but came out of my shell once I got extremely involved in dance. I ate, slept, and breathed dance. I was on the dance team and loved to perform. I even danced in Superbowl XXIX! (I was too young to audition for the 1/2 Time show, so I auditioned for and made it into the Pregame show!) It brought my out of my shell quite a bit. My favorite form of dance was/is lyrical. It tells such a great story with the dancer's body alone. I can't wait to see what activities you get involved in. I always used to joke and say boy or girl, my child will be a ballet dancer. Well that may be true one day, but only if you want to be one. That is the joy of growing up - you can do/experience any activities you want to! I know whatever you do, you will be great in. Your determination as a 15 month old is proof of that.
Believe it or not, your old mommy was once a young, sprite teenager in high school. I started off high school rather shy (much as you are now), but came out of my shell once I got extremely involved in dance. I ate, slept, and breathed dance. I was on the dance team and loved to perform. I even danced in Superbowl XXIX! (I was too young to audition for the 1/2 Time show, so I auditioned for and made it into the Pregame show!) It brought my out of my shell quite a bit. My favorite form of dance was/is lyrical. It tells such a great story with the dancer's body alone. I can't wait to see what activities you get involved in. I always used to joke and say boy or girl, my child will be a ballet dancer. Well that may be true one day, but only if you want to be one. That is the joy of growing up - you can do/experience any activities you want to! I know whatever you do, you will be great in. Your determination as a 15 month old is proof of that.
Wednesday, June 1, 2011
Day 1 – Provide a picture of the space where you normally blog
Since this blog is meant to be a record for my son when he grows up, I thought I would answer these questions in letter format. I'm mixing it up a bit!
Dear Cheeks -
I seem to be following suit with other bloggers who seem to do most of their blogging at work. This is the easiest time. I can whip out an entry during a call that I am a silent party to, or during a lunch break. Blogging at home seems impossible at times with you running around the house and discovering new things to play with daily. Don't worry - I am not complaining - when I am home, I prefer nothing more than to play with you and enjoy every bit of you. So work it is. Here is a picture of my desk in my office:
On my desk you can see evidence of my love for coffee (two coffee cups!) I have pictures of you all over my office - they keep me going when the days get tough. This area is my "peaceful area". I love the saying "Live, Laugh, Love". It's the first thing I see when I come into my office. It keeps me light hearted through out the day!
Those are words you should live by - Live....Laugh.....Love. If you do those three things, you are bound to lead a life of happiness. I plan to make sure your childhood is full of all three.
Love,
Mommy
Dear Cheeks -
I seem to be following suit with other bloggers who seem to do most of their blogging at work. This is the easiest time. I can whip out an entry during a call that I am a silent party to, or during a lunch break. Blogging at home seems impossible at times with you running around the house and discovering new things to play with daily. Don't worry - I am not complaining - when I am home, I prefer nothing more than to play with you and enjoy every bit of you. So work it is. Here is a picture of my desk in my office:
On my desk you can see evidence of my love for coffee (two coffee cups!) I have pictures of you all over my office - they keep me going when the days get tough. This area is my "peaceful area". I love the saying "Live, Laugh, Love". It's the first thing I see when I come into my office. It keeps me light hearted through out the day!
Those are words you should live by - Live....Laugh.....Love. If you do those three things, you are bound to lead a life of happiness. I plan to make sure your childhood is full of all three.
Love,
Mommy
30 Day Non-Challenge
OK, I am in - the 30 day non-challenge! Presented by Strawberry and An Offering of Love. The last challenge wore me out - but the fact that not everyday is required makes this one less work it seems! Also, I like the questions - very great Q&A for Cheeks to see when he is older.
The new 30 Day Non-Challenge! “Non-challenge” because we will not be offended if you don’t answer all of the questions or decide to skip certain days. Just have fun with it! An Offering of Love and I came up with these and we hope you like them, but I will disclaim this by saying that some questions assume you are in a two-mom household or have a partner/spouse (since that is true of most of our readership). So please don’t hold it against us if you don’t feel every question applies- we did our best! Hope you have fun with this during the month of June. Without further adieu…
Day 1 – Provide a picture of the space where you normally blog
Day 2 -Describe your high school self. What extracurricular activities, if any, did you participate in during high school?
Day 3 -What are your guilty pleasures?
Day 4 – (for parents) What has most surprised you about parenthood?
(for parents-to-be) What has most surprised you about ttc?
Day 5 -What do you prefer to do on your birthday? If you have children, what do you prefer to do for their birthday?
Day 6 – When was the last time you tried something new? What was it and what was the result?
Day 7 – What’s your favorite thing to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner? If you have children, what are their favorites?
Day 8 – If you had to teach something, what would you teach? (If you DO teach, when did you discover your love for teaching/the subject?)
Day 9 – What is the most important lesson you learned from your own mother (or other primary caretaker)?
Day 10 – Share your favorite recipe (or two)
Day 11 – In what ways does being a lesbian/2-mom family impact your experience of parenting?
Day 12 – Tell us about the first time you got drunk (as far as you can remember…)
Day 13 – Tell us about the best job you ever had, and the worst
Day 14 – How do you typically dress? How do you (or would you) like to dress your kid(s)?
Day 15 – What was your college experience like? Were you involved in any clubs, groups, etc?
Day 16 – How many friends do you have in real life that you talk to regularly? How many friends do you have that you feel are ‘true blue’ and how long have you known them?
Day 17 – (for parents) What is your favorite thing about parenthood? Your least favorite?
(for parents-to-be) What are you most looking forward to about parenthood?
Day 18 – How do you feel about astrology? What’s your sign, baby, and do you think it matches your personality?
Day 19 – How do you (and your partner if applicable) feel about PDA?
Day 20 – What is the kindest thing anyone has ever done for you? Did you repay the kindness?
Day 21. What child(ren)’s names do you like that your partner hates and thus you could never use?
Day 22 – What is your most beloved childhood memory? What memories are you trying to create (or will you try to create) for your child(ren)?
Day 23 – What are your favorite activities to do with your kid(s)?
Day 24 – What are your favorite activities to do without your kid(s)? (keep it clean!)
Day 25 – What did you want to be when you grew up? Why and/or how did that change over time?
Day 26 – What is/are the best piece(s) of parenting advice you’ve gotten or can give others?
Day 27 – Which movies or tv shows do you think are the most accurate portrayals of parenthood?
Day 28 – What size family do you come from, what size family do you want, and why?
Day 29 – What do you think about giving kids an allowance, and what chores do you or would you expect your child(ren) to help out with?
Day 30 – What is/are the most memorable questions or reactions you’ve gotten in regards to being a two-mom family?
The new 30 Day Non-Challenge! “Non-challenge” because we will not be offended if you don’t answer all of the questions or decide to skip certain days. Just have fun with it! An Offering of Love and I came up with these and we hope you like them, but I will disclaim this by saying that some questions assume you are in a two-mom household or have a partner/spouse (since that is true of most of our readership). So please don’t hold it against us if you don’t feel every question applies- we did our best! Hope you have fun with this during the month of June. Without further adieu…
Day 1 – Provide a picture of the space where you normally blog
Day 2 -Describe your high school self. What extracurricular activities, if any, did you participate in during high school?
Day 3 -What are your guilty pleasures?
Day 4 – (for parents) What has most surprised you about parenthood?
(for parents-to-be) What has most surprised you about ttc?
Day 5 -What do you prefer to do on your birthday? If you have children, what do you prefer to do for their birthday?
Day 6 – When was the last time you tried something new? What was it and what was the result?
Day 7 – What’s your favorite thing to eat for breakfast, lunch and dinner? If you have children, what are their favorites?
Day 8 – If you had to teach something, what would you teach? (If you DO teach, when did you discover your love for teaching/the subject?)
Day 9 – What is the most important lesson you learned from your own mother (or other primary caretaker)?
Day 10 – Share your favorite recipe (or two)
Day 11 – In what ways does being a lesbian/2-mom family impact your experience of parenting?
Day 12 – Tell us about the first time you got drunk (as far as you can remember…)
Day 13 – Tell us about the best job you ever had, and the worst
Day 14 – How do you typically dress? How do you (or would you) like to dress your kid(s)?
Day 15 – What was your college experience like? Were you involved in any clubs, groups, etc?
Day 16 – How many friends do you have in real life that you talk to regularly? How many friends do you have that you feel are ‘true blue’ and how long have you known them?
Day 17 – (for parents) What is your favorite thing about parenthood? Your least favorite?
(for parents-to-be) What are you most looking forward to about parenthood?
Day 18 – How do you feel about astrology? What’s your sign, baby, and do you think it matches your personality?
Day 19 – How do you (and your partner if applicable) feel about PDA?
Day 20 – What is the kindest thing anyone has ever done for you? Did you repay the kindness?
Day 21. What child(ren)’s names do you like that your partner hates and thus you could never use?
Day 22 – What is your most beloved childhood memory? What memories are you trying to create (or will you try to create) for your child(ren)?
Day 23 – What are your favorite activities to do with your kid(s)?
Day 24 – What are your favorite activities to do without your kid(s)? (keep it clean!)
Day 25 – What did you want to be when you grew up? Why and/or how did that change over time?
Day 26 – What is/are the best piece(s) of parenting advice you’ve gotten or can give others?
Day 27 – Which movies or tv shows do you think are the most accurate portrayals of parenthood?
Day 28 – What size family do you come from, what size family do you want, and why?
Day 29 – What do you think about giving kids an allowance, and what chores do you or would you expect your child(ren) to help out with?
Day 30 – What is/are the most memorable questions or reactions you’ve gotten in regards to being a two-mom family?
Growth Spurt?
Cheeks woke up screaming/crying today at 6:30am. This is a wee bit early for him. He fell back asleep, but at 7:00am the screaming/crying started up again. I went into his room. He was laying on his back with tears streaming down his face, arms stretched up for me to pick him up. I did so, and his tear stained face just plopped on my shoulder. We went downstairs for some milk - which he wanted nothing to do with. Upon seeing the milk, the crying started again. After about 20 minutes of intermitent crying/screaming/head on shouldering, I decided to put Cheeks back up to sleep. Maybe he was still tired? I put some Orajel on his gums (maybe his teeth hurt??)
He fell back asleep in about 30 seconds. Whew! I left for work, and Doc waited for our boy to wake up. He woke up...very clingy...and became very happy after he ate some eggs (2) and a whole banana!! Little by little, the temper tantrums started flaring up again. Some Cheez-its seemed to calm him for a second time.
I am wondering if Cheeks is going through a growth spurt? He is cranky, irritable, and HUNGRY. One of the hardest parts of being a mommy is seeing your child unhappy and not knowing why or what you can do for him.
He fell back asleep in about 30 seconds. Whew! I left for work, and Doc waited for our boy to wake up. He woke up...very clingy...and became very happy after he ate some eggs (2) and a whole banana!! Little by little, the temper tantrums started flaring up again. Some Cheez-its seemed to calm him for a second time.
I am wondering if Cheeks is going through a growth spurt? He is cranky, irritable, and HUNGRY. One of the hardest parts of being a mommy is seeing your child unhappy and not knowing why or what you can do for him.
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Happy and Sad Notes
I know I haven't posted in awhile. We have had a hectic few days celebrating mama's birthday and traveling to visit with family in S. Florida. We had a fantastic time. Cheeks had a ball with our family over the weekend. We went swimming, out to dinner a few times, had a BBQ, and went to that bounce house place. Cheeks and his cousin Sammi had a BLAST. Let's just say I now know why adults don't have bounce house parties...I am way too old and out of shape for those things! But it's a good work out let me tell you!! So it was a great weekend had by all - we wish it didn't have to end.
I've been checking in on everyone's blogs - enjoying the updates. There is one blog in particular that I have become a dedicated reader to. I'm not sure if anyone else in the gay/lesbian parent blog circle reads this one, but it's heartbreaking. Mel at Three Times the Fun started a blog awhile back about her family - her, her husband, their 4 year old son, and their 6-month old TRIPLETS!! What a handful, huh? Well, last week, one of the triplets was found in his crib not breathing. A few days later, he passed away. She has been chronicling the week so amazingly well for a mom that must be going through hell. I don't know this woman (she is actually a friend of a friend), but being a mom, I feel her pain. I cannot imagine what she is going through. I think I would cease to function if anything happened to Cheeks. It's a beautifully written, sometimes heart wrenching read. Please keep this family in your thoughts as they go through this hard time. She noted in her blog that Owen's color was orange (they color coded the triplets) - tomorrow is Owen's funeral - she asked that everyone wear orange. While I don't know this family - her blog has touched me deeply - I will be wearing orange tomorrow to show my support as a fellow mom.
I've been checking in on everyone's blogs - enjoying the updates. There is one blog in particular that I have become a dedicated reader to. I'm not sure if anyone else in the gay/lesbian parent blog circle reads this one, but it's heartbreaking. Mel at Three Times the Fun started a blog awhile back about her family - her, her husband, their 4 year old son, and their 6-month old TRIPLETS!! What a handful, huh? Well, last week, one of the triplets was found in his crib not breathing. A few days later, he passed away. She has been chronicling the week so amazingly well for a mom that must be going through hell. I don't know this woman (she is actually a friend of a friend), but being a mom, I feel her pain. I cannot imagine what she is going through. I think I would cease to function if anything happened to Cheeks. It's a beautifully written, sometimes heart wrenching read. Please keep this family in your thoughts as they go through this hard time. She noted in her blog that Owen's color was orange (they color coded the triplets) - tomorrow is Owen's funeral - she asked that everyone wear orange. While I don't know this family - her blog has touched me deeply - I will be wearing orange tomorrow to show my support as a fellow mom.
Monday, May 23, 2011
Best.Weekend.Ever.
We had such a great weekend. I wish it didn't have to end. We started off Friday night just relaxing around the house, doing a bit of food shopping, and playing outside.
On Saturday, we had a playdate at the zoo where we met a very nice mom and son. I swear Cheeks and this boy could be brothers - same height, same exact color hair - it's very cute! Hopefully we will expand the friendship - the age is perfect for be (within a few months of each other).
Saturday night, we took Cheeks to a very fun indoor bounce house place. At first Cheeks was hesitant with the new surroundings. It didn't take long for him to start having a blast though! He even slid down a big slide several times!!! I highly recommend this place for anyone with toddlers as they have two toddler bounce houses. It's a perfect outlet for energy on days where it is too hot/rainy/yucky to be outside.
After the bounce houses, we had dinner at a local pizza place. It was outstanding! Cheeks was wore out by the time we got home and he went straight to bed. Doc and I enjoyed watching 48 hours mystery and Saturday Night Live (who doesn't love a good Justin Timberlake episode???)
Yesterday we stayed around the house earlier in the day. Doc got some spring cleaning done on the patios and I played with Cheeks. After Cheeks' nap, we packed up and headed over to the Magic Kingdom! Oh what fun. Cheeks had a haircut at the Harmony Barber Shop (second one there - we love it!) What was exciting about this trip for us was that Cheeks was much more interactive. On It's a Small World he was pointing at all of the animitronics. He enjoyed the Country Bear Jamboree. What was the best for me was seeing his reaction to The Main Street Electrical Parade! He was in awe. This was special to me because when I used to work at Disney, I'd make it a point to watch the parade every time I was working during that time slot. I loved it then - and I love it now. I am so glad that Cheeks seemed to love it as much as I do!!
And now for some pics of our weekend:
Playing with chalk:
Not so sure about the bounce house:
OK - so this place isn't so bad:
Always finding a truck to play with wherever we go:
Being a silly, happy boy at dinner:
Getting a haircut at Disney:
Post Haircut:
Being silly and burning off some energy!:
Waiting for the parade:
Great opportunity for a family pic:
Ohhhh....what pretty lights in the parade:
Passed out after a great weekend:
On Saturday, we had a playdate at the zoo where we met a very nice mom and son. I swear Cheeks and this boy could be brothers - same height, same exact color hair - it's very cute! Hopefully we will expand the friendship - the age is perfect for be (within a few months of each other).
Saturday night, we took Cheeks to a very fun indoor bounce house place. At first Cheeks was hesitant with the new surroundings. It didn't take long for him to start having a blast though! He even slid down a big slide several times!!! I highly recommend this place for anyone with toddlers as they have two toddler bounce houses. It's a perfect outlet for energy on days where it is too hot/rainy/yucky to be outside.
After the bounce houses, we had dinner at a local pizza place. It was outstanding! Cheeks was wore out by the time we got home and he went straight to bed. Doc and I enjoyed watching 48 hours mystery and Saturday Night Live (who doesn't love a good Justin Timberlake episode???)
Yesterday we stayed around the house earlier in the day. Doc got some spring cleaning done on the patios and I played with Cheeks. After Cheeks' nap, we packed up and headed over to the Magic Kingdom! Oh what fun. Cheeks had a haircut at the Harmony Barber Shop (second one there - we love it!) What was exciting about this trip for us was that Cheeks was much more interactive. On It's a Small World he was pointing at all of the animitronics. He enjoyed the Country Bear Jamboree. What was the best for me was seeing his reaction to The Main Street Electrical Parade! He was in awe. This was special to me because when I used to work at Disney, I'd make it a point to watch the parade every time I was working during that time slot. I loved it then - and I love it now. I am so glad that Cheeks seemed to love it as much as I do!!
And now for some pics of our weekend:
Playing with chalk:
Not so sure about the bounce house:
OK - so this place isn't so bad:
Always finding a truck to play with wherever we go:
Being a silly, happy boy at dinner:
Getting a haircut at Disney:
Post Haircut:
Being silly and burning off some energy!:
Waiting for the parade:
Great opportunity for a family pic:
Ohhhh....what pretty lights in the parade:
Passed out after a great weekend:
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
2 Year Molors Early?
At 14 months, I think that Cheeks is getting his 2 year molors. He has two HUGE mounds in the back/side area of his mouth where the molors come in. He has been fussy and cranky periodically throughout the past few days. His eating habits are reverting to less than desired. And he has been waking in the middle of the night again (well not last night, but the previous night he was up several times).
Are these signs of molors breaking through? Has anyone else's kids gotten their molors at 14 months? What were the signs?
I feel so bad for the little guy.
Are these signs of molors breaking through? Has anyone else's kids gotten their molors at 14 months? What were the signs?
I feel so bad for the little guy.
Wednesday, May 11, 2011
Our afternoon plans and other ramblings
I am very excited to get out of work today. Once I am off work, Cheeks and I are going to the library to get a couple of new books to read, the park to run around and expell energy, and the store to pick up some American cheese! It should be a funfilled afternoon of mommy and son bonding time.
I love that my job offers the flexibility to work from home because it affords me the ability to have afternoons like this. At 4:15 my computer shuts down and it is pure Cheeks time. I crave that and am lucky that we have that ability.
On another note, I am in the process of switching this blog over to WordPress. I really like the ability to password protect some posts, and that is my main driver to move over there. I think I'm also going to change around the name of the blog
(again) because I'm always up for a change!
I will post the new link as soon as I have the other site up and running (shouldn't be too much longer).
I love that my job offers the flexibility to work from home because it affords me the ability to have afternoons like this. At 4:15 my computer shuts down and it is pure Cheeks time. I crave that and am lucky that we have that ability.
On another note, I am in the process of switching this blog over to WordPress. I really like the ability to password protect some posts, and that is my main driver to move over there. I think I'm also going to change around the name of the blog
(again) because I'm always up for a change!
I will post the new link as soon as I have the other site up and running (shouldn't be too much longer).
Monday, May 9, 2011
The moms in your life
Dear Cheeks -
You are one lucky little boy. Not only do you have two moms who love you beyond words can say - you also have other women in your life who love you like your own. I wanted to take the time to tell you about each one of them.
You are one lucky little boy. Not only do you have two moms who love you beyond words can say - you also have other women in your life who love you like your own. I wanted to take the time to tell you about each one of them.
Your Mama
Your mama never knew she could love someone so much until the day she laid her eyes on you. She cares about you like no mother I have ever seen. The tiniest scratch on your tiny toe upsets her because she doesn't want to ever see you in any kind of pain or hurt. No matter how tough a day she has, she always pulls a smile out for you. I watch you both play - and there is no doubt in my mind that if a mother and son were ever made for each other - this was the match. You love to climb all over her, and you love to lean against her while watching your favorite shows on TV. This woman loves you more than I could ever begin to tell you in this blog.
Your Mommy
That would be me! You bring a joy to my life that completes me. I always wanted to be a mom, and you made that happen! I burst with pride everytime you accomplish something new. Watching you walk around like a big boy is just so amazingly wonderful to me. I hate leaving you every day to go to work, but know that you are having a blast with your mama and that we will have our fun time when I get home. When I get home, we play, and play, and play. My favorite time of day with you is reading you your bedtime stories. Your mama and I have been reading to you since before you were born, and you just adore books. I love sitting down and reading your favorite books. You usually give books your undivided attention, and that is a special gift that I hope you continue to cherish. I love you so much my son.
Your Grandma G
You have some bond with your Grandma G. Even though you are only 14 months, you know who she is when you see her. You don't get shy and try to hide like you do with other people. You always have a HUGE smile and hugs for her. She makes you laugh more than anyone else I think, and you adore the time you spend playing with her and seeing her on iChat. As soon as she pops onto the computer screen, your face just lights up with excitement. She spoils you rotten, and wouldn't have it any other way.
Your Grandma C
Your Grandma C might not be here with you in person, but she watches over you with all the angels everyday. She loved you very very much and couldn't wait for the times to see you. I remember you were napping once as a tiny baby, and she just couldn't wait for you to wake up to see you. She came charging up the stairs with a big smile and a hug and held you tight. She loved her grandkids, fried chicken, and pigs. I know she looks down on your with love each and every day.
Your Aunt Jen
Your Aunt Jen would steal you from mama and me if she could! She loves to hug and kiss you and call you BMANNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNNN!!!!! You laugh at her when I swing you into her and pull you away. She tries to spoil you all the time, but mommy doesn't always let her! When you were born, she couldn't wait to get up to Sanford so she could just hold you, hug you, and kiss you. You have a wonderful Aunt in your Aunt Jen.
Your Cousin Sammi
Your cousin Sammi is 10 years older than you, but treats you like her own little brother. She counts the days until you come to visit so she can help "babysit" you while we are down there. She loves to chase after you, dance for you, play with your toys with you, and laugh with you. You laugh sooooooo much when you play with her. The other day, we were at Grandma G's and we woke Sammi up together. You just stood there and held your arms up for her to pick you up. I know that even though there is a 10 year age difference, you are going to be very close cousins.
And those women my dear, are the women in your life. We all love you beyond words can express. You are one lucky little boy to have so much adoration in your life - and as long as we are all around, you will continue to have that adoration and love.
Love,
Mommy
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Days 29 and 30
SO GLAD THIS IS OVER!!!! It was fun - but whew.
Day 29: Wishes
I have one simple wish - for Cheeks to grow up without anyone making fun of him for having two moms. I'm not concerned about it - kids will make fun of anything - if its not that he has two moms, it will be that he has curly hair - or because he is smart - or because of any reason a kid come up with to make fun of him. It's just what kids do. But boy wouldn't it be great if that wasn't a worry for him ever :)
Day 30: A picture
Day 29: Wishes
I have one simple wish - for Cheeks to grow up without anyone making fun of him for having two moms. I'm not concerned about it - kids will make fun of anything - if its not that he has two moms, it will be that he has curly hair - or because he is smart - or because of any reason a kid come up with to make fun of him. It's just what kids do. But boy wouldn't it be great if that wasn't a worry for him ever :)
Day 30: A picture
Thursday, April 28, 2011
Day 28 - Something that stresses you
I think what stresses me more than anything is finding the time to clean. I want the perfect house - the house that looks like a model home. Mine never will. With a full time job, a wife in school, and an almost 14 month old son, a clean house is hard. I feel sometimes like my life would be so much less stressful if the house was always in perfect order. Although, I know then that something else would stress me out!
Day 27 - Pets
This is a sad post for me. Over the years, Doc and I have adopted several pets. By the time Cheeks came along, we had 4 cats and a dog. Needless to say, my fur-babies don't get the attention they need with so many of them and the baby. So we are working on finding new homes for some of them. Boo recently went to live at Caboodle Ranch - full with cat Walmarts, a cat City Hall, and tree houses. I hate thinking of her there - but I know she is probably happier.
Next to go to their new home will be Sophia. She is our youngest cat. We are bringing her to live with a friend up in NY state. They just lost a cat that looks just like her - so they are excited to have her.
That leaves us with two cats and one dog - a bit more manageable. Harley is our dog. She is part bull terrier (pit bull), and part whippet. She is the sweetest thing ever and lets Cheeks play with her dog tags and sit on her like a bench. She looks mean and has a ferocious bark - but wouldn't hurt a fly.
The two cats are Maxx (short for Maxxine) and TJ (short for Toe Joe). Maxx is all black and TJ is a big old red cat. They are both lap cats and just want to be loved.
I wish we could keep all of them - but I know they will all have happier lives with more attention.
Next to go to their new home will be Sophia. She is our youngest cat. We are bringing her to live with a friend up in NY state. They just lost a cat that looks just like her - so they are excited to have her.
That leaves us with two cats and one dog - a bit more manageable. Harley is our dog. She is part bull terrier (pit bull), and part whippet. She is the sweetest thing ever and lets Cheeks play with her dog tags and sit on her like a bench. She looks mean and has a ferocious bark - but wouldn't hurt a fly.
The two cats are Maxx (short for Maxxine) and TJ (short for Toe Joe). Maxx is all black and TJ is a big old red cat. They are both lap cats and just want to be loved.
I wish we could keep all of them - but I know they will all have happier lives with more attention.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
Day 26 - A Picture of Your Family
This is one of the very few pictures of my family all together. From Left to Right:
Backrow: Doc, me, my dad, my uncle, my mom, my sister, my brother-in-law
Middle Row: Cheeks, my aunt, my niece
Front Row: Harley (our dog), Beau (my aunt and uncle's dog)
The only member missing is my sister's dog, Goldie.
I love this photo because it's so rare that we are all together - it always seems like someone is working, or in school, or away on a trip. This was a great pic for me :)
And a couple of pics of my immediate family - these are also rare as it is usually Doc or me taking the pic (which is why these are a bit older) :)
Backrow: Doc, me, my dad, my uncle, my mom, my sister, my brother-in-law
Middle Row: Cheeks, my aunt, my niece
Front Row: Harley (our dog), Beau (my aunt and uncle's dog)
The only member missing is my sister's dog, Goldie.
I love this photo because it's so rare that we are all together - it always seems like someone is working, or in school, or away on a trip. This was a great pic for me :)
And a couple of pics of my immediate family - these are also rare as it is usually Doc or me taking the pic (which is why these are a bit older) :)
Monday, April 25, 2011
Day 25 - A Favorite Memory
For this post, I decided to go back to before the day Cheeks was born (because that is of course what I would have written about without saying!) My favorite memory was for about 2 minutes on 10/25/2008. Doc and I got married that day (not legally unfortunately - but spirtually and in front of close friends and family!)
The absolute best memory of that day for me was running into a private room directly after the ceremony. We had about 2 minutes alone - and we spent it smiling and laughing. Our family and friends had just thrown birdseed all over us (NOT a good idea for people thinking of doing this - I think I am still finding birdseed 2.5 years later lol). So we were both covered in birdseed - freshly married - and so happy. That was a great moment :)
This is a pic of us running into the room after the ceremony:
The absolute best memory of that day for me was running into a private room directly after the ceremony. We had about 2 minutes alone - and we spent it smiling and laughing. Our family and friends had just thrown birdseed all over us (NOT a good idea for people thinking of doing this - I think I am still finding birdseed 2.5 years later lol). So we were both covered in birdseed - freshly married - and so happy. That was a great moment :)
This is a pic of us running into the room after the ceremony:
WordPress Question
I'm considering a move from Blogger to WordPress. Any advise on this from anyone out there in blogland that has done the switch? Anything better about one over the other? For those who made the switch - are you happy with WordPress?
Day 24 - Something You Have Learned
I have learned a lot in my life - but perhaps the single most important thing I have learned is that being a mom is hard work. I LOVE being a mom - and everything that comes along with it. But it is hard. Your days are no longer your own. Your home starts to looks like a mini Babies R Us - soon to be followed by a mini Toys R Us.
Your schedule gets turned upside down: wake up - feed - sleep - wake up - feed - sleep - wake up - feed - sleep - work - play - feed - sleep - bottle cleaning time - feed - straighten up the mess made during the day - sleep - and do it all over again the next day. Add postpartum hormones into the mix and all that seems impossible at times.
Eventually, that schedule turns into - feed - sleep - work - play - feed - bathtime - bedtime - clean up the mess made during the day - and do it all over again the next day.
To those who don't have kids, this may seem easy - but for those out there that do have kids, they understand how hard it is. You know what though - I wouldn't trade it for ANYTHING in the world. It's hard - but I love it. And it is the most rewarding and amazing feeling in the world when that child of yours starts making strides and developments. My heart bursts with pride everytime Cheeks does something new. It's hard work - but it's the best hard work out there :)
Your schedule gets turned upside down: wake up - feed - sleep - wake up - feed - sleep - wake up - feed - sleep - work - play - feed - sleep - bottle cleaning time - feed - straighten up the mess made during the day - sleep - and do it all over again the next day. Add postpartum hormones into the mix and all that seems impossible at times.
Eventually, that schedule turns into - feed - sleep - work - play - feed - bathtime - bedtime - clean up the mess made during the day - and do it all over again the next day.
To those who don't have kids, this may seem easy - but for those out there that do have kids, they understand how hard it is. You know what though - I wouldn't trade it for ANYTHING in the world. It's hard - but I love it. And it is the most rewarding and amazing feeling in the world when that child of yours starts making strides and developments. My heart bursts with pride everytime Cheeks does something new. It's hard work - but it's the best hard work out there :)
Friday, April 22, 2011
New Development
WE HAVE A WALKER!!!! Cheeks is a bit unsteady, and still working on his confidence, but he has officially entered uncharted territory. Cheeks is walking!! I know a lot of people say this phase is more difficult - but I am going to have to go out on a limb and say it is going to make things easier for our family. I am looking forward to him being able to get out of his stroller and stretch his legs more when we are out. And I am looking forward to less bending to pick him up!!
WAY TO GO CHEEKS!! :)
WAY TO GO CHEEKS!! :)
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